The way of gift giving
1 counts: gifts should consider the specific circumstances and situations. In general to the private family, should be the hostess to bring some small gifts, such as beam, fruit, native. There are children, can send toys, candy. Invited to participate in the wedding, in addition to art decorations, but also a gift of flowers and practical items, new year, Christmas, the general can be sent to the calendar, wine, tea, candy, tobacco, etc..
2 grasp the timing and manner of gifts - gifts should be presented in general. But sometimes to attend the wedding, also can send in advance. He ceremony Festival, complimentary gift can be sent home or by mail. This should be with the gift giver's name card attached, handwritten message can also be installed in the envelope, a considerable size, the indication of the recipient's name, affixed to the skin above the gift packaging. Usually, in public only to a group of people in a personal gift is not appropriate. Because the recipient will be fooled by bribery and feeling, and make no gifts people have neglected and despised the feeling. It is not proper to give gifts to people who are closely related to the public, so as to avoid giving the public the feeling that you are closely related to material things. Only counts the special gift, expression of special gift, only appropriate gifts in a public occasion. Because this time the public has become a witness to your sincere friendship. Such as a special souvenir.
3 attitude is friendly, words do not lose - should pay attention to the attitude, action and language expression. Calm and friendly, liberal and dignified action with courtesy language, is willing to accept the gifts party. The thief style quietly in a corner of the gift placed under the table or room, can not achieve the purpose of the gift, even exactly the opposite. In our general practice, their gifts always modest and said: "this is! Small gift！ "" only a little small meaning "or" very sorry...... "This is the best way to avoid this. Of course, if the gift is a kind of almost proud of the tone, said: "this is a very valuable thing! "Not appropriate. In the introduction of the gifts, it should be stressed that their affection and friendship with a party A, the actual value, rather than on the gift or fall into the ceremony and light righteousness point, even the other side there is a feeling of acceptance of bribes.
4 take into account the Customs Customs -- because people matter due to salute, is one of the social etiquette norms, for the gift of choice, should also be consistent with this requirement. The gift of choice, according to different receiver distinction. Generally speaking, to poverty, to better benefit; on the rich, sophisticated is preferred; for lover, lover, lover, with the memorial; to a friend, with fun is good; for the elderly, the better; for children, with special novelty for the better; for foreign guests to features for the good.
5 gifts must grasp the principle of avoiding taboo -- for example, Chinese generally have a good double ", so that the great joy, the gifts are good, double bogey, but Cantonese taboo:" 4 "this even, because in Cantonese," 4 "sounds like" dead "is unlucky. Again, although pure white and flawless Italy, but Chinese taboo, because in Chinese, white is often great color and poor color. Similarly, black is also regarded as unlucky, is the color of disaster, mourning the loss of color. And red, is a festive, auspicious, a symbol of celebration, by people's general love. In addition, our people often pay attention to the elderly can not be sent to watch, lovers or couples can not send pears, because "send bell" and "down", "pear" and "from" homophonic, it is unlucky. Also, if you can not send drugs for healthy people, can not send personal supplies for the opposite sex friends.